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I had a situation a few weeks back where I was at the train station. and a guy came up to me. and just casually said. “I know. this is probably going to backfire but I just wanted to know if you were seeing anyone. ”
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Of course by the time I’d pondered the ramifications of both. he had probably already caught the train. got home and had dinner…
Which brings me to an interesting theory.
A friend of mine was explaining to me. how friend of hers. shaved one side of her head. just so everyone could tell she was a lesbian. because she doesn’t want guys hitting on her… Is that a common occurance. Is that why some lesbians shave their heads canada goose jacket yellow . If it’s purely for the reason of liking the style. that’s different goose bay in canada outlet online . but if you’re shaving your head to prove a point and “scare certain people off”…It’s a pretty extreme move to alter your appearance so dramatically. just so people from space know that you like vagina.
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. it’s a compliment in my book.
But just wanted to put it out there. how do you guys deal with this situation. Is it necessary to tell a guy you barely know that you’re gay. or just simply tell him you’re not interested… Or… Just shave your head and avoid the question altogether.